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Have you ever found yourself on a Saturday evening standing in a dimly lit room surrounded by people whose real first names you might not know while your barely-clad significant other is strapped to a piece of specially-designed, evil-intentioned furniture breathlessly awaiting the first kiss of whichever implement you selected from your leather bag full of dire toys?

I have. And it is a ritual I partake in as often as I can, as it is one time I can fully exist in the moment. (more…)

Being in a D/s relationship is not always a walk in the park. Those involved in one might say that that is the understatement of the year.

What makes a D/s relationship different than a plain vanilla one (besides the toy collection)? For me, it is the depth of the emotional bond the boy and I share. I trust his decisions, he trusts my judgement. We discuss everything with each other. There are no unpleasant hidden surprises lurking around in the corners of his mind, or mine. He never has a need to push me away, and I give him all of the solitary time to think that he needs. I always trust that he will tell me if he is having an issue with any facet of his life, either with me, or without me. I encourage him in his goals; he supports my often wacky ideas about life. (more…)

I finally have a place I can call mine. The purpose of this blog is to have somewhere to freely express myself with regard to the particular flavor of alternative lifestyle I hold dear. There will be no titillating pictures, no abject smut to be found. I am a Dominant female sadist married to a beautiful masochist, and this is my home.

Currently, I am gathering informative links to other thoughtful and worthy sites which provide intelligent information on the BDSM and D/s lifestyles. Any articles I post here will be my own intellectual property, unless otherwise stated.

I am not a professional in any manner of the word. Lesson number one for any neophyte seeking to gain information on this lifestyle: There is a difference between a lifestyle Dominant female and a professional Dominatrix. Just wanted to get that out of the way first.

Carry on!